নিঃসঙ্গ মৃত্যু

– পাবলো নেরুদা

অনুবাদঃ অসিত সরকার

নির্জন কবরখানা
স্মৃতিস্তম্ভগুলো নিঃশব্দ অস্থিতে পরিপূর্ণ,
অন্ধকার সংকীর্ণ গুহার মধ্যে দিয়ে হৃদয় আসে যায়ঃ
যেন জন্মলগ্ন এক জাহাজের খোলের মধ্যে আমরা মারা গেলাম
যেন হৃদয়ের অতলান্তে আমরা তলিয়ে গেলাম
যেন সত্তার আপন অস্তিত্বে আমরা মিশে গেলাম।
অজস্র মৃতদেহ
ক্লেদাক্ত হিমেল পা,
পাঁজরে পাঁজরে জড়ানো মৃত্যু,
পবিত্র একটা শব্দের মতো
কুকুরবিহীন তীক্ষ্ণ চিতকারের মতো
অশ্রু কিংবা বৃষ্টির আর্দ্রতায় ফুলে ওঠা কবরে নানা ঘন্টাধ্বনির মতো।
কখনও কখনও, একা, আমি দেখি
কফিনগুলো খোলা পালে বিবর্ণ মৃতদের বয়ে নিয়ে চলেছে,
মৃত কুন্তলে জড়ানো নারী, দেবদূতের মতো শুভ্র রুটিওয়ালা,
বিষণ্ন কেরানীবধূ,
কফিনগুলো নেমে গেলো মৃত্যুর খাড়াই নদীতে,
মদিরার মতো রক্তবর্ণ গাঢ় নদী, দারুণ খরস্রোতা,
মৃত্যুর শব্দে পালগুলো ফুলে উঠছে
পালগুলো ফুলে উঠছে মৃত্যুর নিঃশব্দ ধ্বনি প্রতিধ্বনিতে।
মৃত্যু এসে পৌঁছালো কলশব্দমুখর নদীবেলায়
পা-বিহীন একটা জুতোর মতো, মানুষবিহীন একটা পোশাকের মতো
আংটি আর আঙুলবিহীন হাতে কড়া নাড়বে বলে সে এসে পৌঁছালো

এসে পৌঁছালো মুখবিহীন জিভবিহীন কন্ঠস্বরবিহীন কন্ঠে চিতকার করবে বলে।
কখনও প্রতিধ্বনিত হয় না তার পদপাতের শব্দ।
গাছের পাতার মতো তার পোশাকের খস্‌খস্‌ শব্দ।
আমি ঠিক জানি না, আমি খুব অল্পই বুঝি, আমি খুব কমই দেখি
তবু আমার মনে হয় তার গানের রঙ তরল বেগুনে,
যে রঙ মাটির সঙ্গে মিশে যায়,
কেননা মৃত্যুর মুখ
মৃত্যুর অপলক চোখের দৃষ্টি অবিকল সবুজ,
বেগুনে পাতার বিদীর্ণ আর্দ্রতায়
উন্মত্ত শীতের রঙ বিষণ্ন ধূসর।
অথচ পল্লবের ছদ্মবেশে মৃত্যু পৃথিবীর মধ্য দিয়ে চলে যায়
মৃতের খোঁজে মাটি থেকে লাফিয়ে ওঠে,
মৃত্যু পল্লবে মুখ ঢাকে,
মৃত্যুর জিভ খোঁজে শবদেহ,
মৃত্যুর ছুঁচ খোঁজে সুতো।
মৃত্যু আমাদের দোলনার আশেপাশে
সস্তা মাদুরে, কালো কম্বলে মৃত্যু মাথা গুঁজে থাকে,
তারপর সহসা উধাও-
বিষণ্ন শব্দে চাদর দুলিয়ে সে চলেযায়
আর বিছানাগুলো পাল তুলে ভেসে যায়বন্দরের দিকে
যেখানে সম্রাটের মতো সুসজ্জিত পোশাকে অপেক্ষা করে থাকে মৃত্যু।

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  1. Terrifier 3 star David Howard Thornton has broken his silence on the low-budget horror film demolishing $200m flop Joker: Folie à
    Deux at the box office.

    The grisly film – made for about $2 million – stars Thornton as homicidal clown Art who brutally murders an array
    of victims in stomach churning scenes – with the film knocking the starry Joaquin Phoenix and Lady Gaga film off the
    top of the US box office last week.

    Thornton said the runaway success of his film
    had left him stunned as he likened to battle of the two
    films to ‘David vs Goliath.’ 

    He told TMZ: ‘Terrifier 3 was a small lower budget independent film…
    I never expected this to happen in my life, I’m floored and grateful
    for it all.

    ‘We’re grateful to the fans, we have a dedicated fanbase, we weren’t beholden to the studio system.

    Terrifier 3 star David Howard Thornton has broken his silence
    on the low-budget horror film demolishing $200m flop Joker:
    Folie à Deux at the box office (pictured as Art the clown) 

    The grisly film – made for about $2 million – stars Thornton as homicidal clown Art who brutally murders
    an array of victims in stomach churning scenes – with the film knocking the starry
    Joaquin Phoenix and Lady Gaga (pictured) film off the top of the US
    box office last week 

    ‘We turned down studios as they wanted to compromise the integrity of the film and we wanted to stick to what
    the fans wanted and we wanted.

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    Terrifier 3 dethrones Joker: Folie À Deux as box office champ

    ‘This shows Hollywood that we need to start making movies that take risks again.

    The star said he had yet to see the panned Joker sequel, saying: ‘I was shocked too as the first Joker film I loved, I’m curious to see why people aren’t
    as crazy about the second one.’    

    Terrifier 3, written and directed by Damien Leone, is an un-rated blood fest,
    which has received a 78-percent rating from the critics on Rotten Tomatoes.  Audiences have ‘certified’ it ‘hot’ and given it
    a healthy 90-percent on the popcornmeter.

    The film earned $18.3 million at the box office according to The Numbers.   

    Landing in third place was Joker: Folie à Deux. After winning the box office competition during its
    debut weekend could not overcome the bad reviews, enduring an 82-percent decline in ticket sales.

    The movie collected only $7.055 million, in spite of being in more than four thousand theaters across the US. 

    Thornton said the runaway success of his film had left him stunned as he likened to battle of the two films to ‘David vs Goliath’ –
    pictured last week

    He said: ‘Terrifier 3 was a small lower budget independent film…
    I never expected this to happen in my life,
    I’m floored and grateful for it all’

    The musical is ‘poised to lose at least $150 million to $200 million in its theatrical run’ according to the publication.

    The movie studio spent about $200 million to produce the film and about $100
    million on marketing and distribution, according
    to the report.

    It would need to gross about $450 million at the box office to break
    even — when factoring in the cut taken by theaters — though Warner Bros.
    sources claim the number is $375 million.

    A Warner Bros. spokesperson responded to the report, saying ‘Any estimates suggested by anonymous “insiders” or “rival executives”
    are grossly wrong and continues a trend where rumor is
    reported as fact.’

    ‘The film continues to play in theatrical release, included
    with this week’s opening in China, and will continue to
    earn revenue throughout its home viewing and ancillary run.’

    So far, the musical about Batman’s nemesis has grossed $51.5 million domestically and $165 million globally after two weeks of release.

    The film is ‘poised to lose at least $150 million to $200 million in its theatrical
    run’ according to the publication

    In comparison, the first Joker grossed $96.2 million domestically and $248.4 million globally after three days of release.

    The hotly-anticipated sequel to the 2019 billion dollar Oscar-winning film was considered a surefire hit for Warner
    Bros Pictures, yet ended up being slammed by critics and
    failed to ignite at the box office. 

    Joker: Folie À Deux has garnered the lowest CinemaScore in comic book movie history as the film bombed
    at the box office on opening night. 

    Joaquin PhoenixLady Gaga

  2. >Understanding the Impact of Mental Health on Youth
    Mental health challenges can have a profound impact on the well-being
    of young people. Certain groups, such as those with disabilities, LGBTQ+ youth, and racial/ethnic minorities, may be more vulnerable
    to these challenges. It is important to recognize both biological and environmental factors that contribute to the development of mental health conditions.

    Biological factors, such as genetics and brain chemistry,
    play a role, as do environmental factors like life experiences.
    By understanding these factors, we can better
    support young people’s mental health needs.

    The impact of mental health on physical health should also
    be recognized. Neglecting mental health can lead to severe
    physical health conditions, as the two are interconnected.

    This highlights the importance of taking a holistic
    approach to overall well-being. By addressing mental health challenges, we
    can promote better physical health outcomes for young people.

    Table: Impact of Mental Health on Physical Health

    Mental Health Conditions Physical Health Impact

    Anxiety Increased risk of heart disease and other cardiovascular problems

    Depression Greater susceptibility to chronic physical illnesses

    Eating Disorders Malnutrition, electrolyte imbalances,
    and organ damage

    Substance Abuse Liver damage, respiratory issues, and increased
    risk of infectious diseases

    Self-Harm Potential for permanent physical harm and scarring

    “Mental health conditions significantly affect the lives of young people, and taking care of both their mental and physical well-being is crucial. By understanding the impact of mental health on youth and addressing the underlying factors, we can support the overall health and well-being of young people.” – Dr.
    Jane Johnson, Child Psychiatrist

    Recognizing the impact of mental health challenges on youth
    is vital for creating a supportive environment. By promoting
    awareness, destigmatizing mental health, and providing appropriate resources and interventions, we can help young people thrive and lead fulfilling
    lives.

    Supporting Youth Mental Health: What Parents Can Do
    Parents play a vital role in supporting their child’s mental health.
    By engaging in open conversations and actively listening to your
    child, you create a safe space for them to express their thoughts and emotions.
    By validating their feelings and experiences, you can help them feel understood and supported.
    It’s important to prioritize these conversations and make them a regular part of your family dynamics.

    Recognizing signs of distress is crucial in identifying when your child may need help.
    Keep an eye out for changes in their mood, behavior,
    academic performance, as well as any disruptions in their sleep or eating patterns.
    If you notice concerning changes, it’s important to let your child know that you are there for them and encourage them to
    seek help. In addition to your support, connecting them with school counseling
    services or other available resources in your community can provide them with the professional guidance they
    may need.

    Remember, supporting your child’s mental health is a collaborative effort.
    Stay actively engaged with their school and communicate with teachers and counselors to ensure
    they’re receiving the support they need. By working together, parents,
    schools, and community organizations can create a supportive ecosystem that promotes the well-being of our youth.

    Resources for Parents:

    NAMI: Family Members and Caregivers

    Child Mind Institute: Parents Guide to Getting Good Care

    AACAP: Talking to Your Kids About Mental Illness

    Quotes:

    “Having open and honest conversations with your child, where you listen and validate their feelings, can help them feel supported.” – Dr.
    Jane Doe, Child Psychologist

    “Recognizing signs of distress in your child is crucial in providing them with the necessary support and guiding them towards help.” – Dr.

    John Smith, Family Therapist

    Signs of Distress How to Help

    Changes in mood Engage in open conversations to understand their emotions

    Changes in behavior Encourage them to seek help from school counseling services
    or other resources

    Changes in academic performance Stay engaged with their school
    and communicate with teachers

    Sleep or eating disruptions Provide a supportive and understanding environment
    Note: If you believe your child is in immediate danger or experiencing
    a mental health crisis, please seek emergency assistance or contact a helpline such as the National
    Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255).

    The Role of Schools in Promoting Youth Mental Health
    Schools have a crucial role to play in promoting
    positive mental health among young people. Creating a safe and supportive school
    environment is essential in fostering the well-being of students.
    By implementing social and emotional learning programs,
    schools can help students develop important skills for managing their emotions,
    building healthy relationships, and making responsible decisions.

    These programs also contribute to the development of positive school environments, where students feel valued, supported, and included.

    Recognizing signs of distress among students is another important aspect of supporting youth mental health.

    Teachers and school staff should be trained to identify
    behavioral changes, academic decline, and signs of emotional distress.
    By being proactive in recognizing these signs, schools can intervene early and direct students to appropriate support services,
    both within the school and in the wider community.

    School-based mental health support is also crucial in addressing the mental health needs of students.
    Many schools have counseling services or access to mental health professionals who can provide individual or group therapy sessions.

    These services can help students navigate challenges and develop healthy coping mechanisms.
    Collaboration with families is essential in ensuring a holistic
    approach to supporting youth mental health. Schools should establish effective
    communication channels with parents, keeping them informed about mental
    health initiatives and encouraging open dialogue about their child’s well-being.

    Positive School Environments Social and Emotional Learning Recognizing Signs of Distress
    School-Based Mental Health Support Communication with Families

    Creating safe, supportive environments where students feel valued and included.

    Implementing programs that help students develop skills for managing
    emotions and building healthy relationships. Training teachers and staff to identify signs
    of distress and intervene early. Providing counseling services and
    access to mental health professionals. Establishing effective communication channels with parents to ensure a collaborative
    approach.
    By prioritizing positive school environments, social and emotional learning, recognizing signs of distress, school-based mental health support, and communication with families,
    schools can make a significant impact on the mental well-being of young
    people.

    The Role of Healthcare Professionals in Youth Mental Health

    Healthcare professionals play a critical role in addressing youth
    mental health, utilizing prevention strategies and routine
    screening to identify and address mental health challenges
    early on. By focusing on both the individual and their environment, healthcare professionals can provide comprehensive care that
    considers the impact of parental mental health and collaborates with multidisciplinary teams and community partners.

    Prevention Strategies and Routine Screening
    Prevention is key when it comes to youth mental health.
    Healthcare professionals can implement evidence-based prevention strategies that target common risk factors and promote resilience.
    Additionally, routine screening can help identify early signs of mental health
    conditions, allowing for timely intervention and support.

    Addressing Parental Mental Health
    Recognizing the interconnectedness of family dynamics, healthcare professionals also address
    parental mental health. By providing resources
    and support for parents, healthcare professionals contribute to creating a healthy and nurturing environment for young people.
    Addressing parental mental health can have a positive impact on the
    overall well-being of the entire family unit.

    Multidisciplinary Teams and Collaboration with Community Partners
    Healthcare professionals work in collaboration with multidisciplinary teams
    to provide holistic care for youth mental health.
    This approach brings together various specialties, such as psychiatrists, psychologists, social workers, and counselors, to ensure comprehensive
    and integrated support. Collaboration with community partners, including schools, community organizations, and other healthcare providers, further enhances
    the effectiveness and reach of mental health services.

    The Role of Media in Promoting Youth Mental Health
    The media has a significant influence on public perception and attitudes
    towards mental health. Responsible media coverage can play a
    crucial role in promoting youth mental health and reducing stigma.
    By providing positive portrayals of mental health issues, the media can contribute
    to changing societal attitudes and fostering empathy and understanding.

    Storytelling is a powerful tool that the media can harness to raise awareness about youth mental health.
    By sharing stories of individuals who have overcome challenges and found
    hope and help, the media can inspire others to seek support and engage
    in suicide prevention efforts. These stories can also serve as a reminder that recovery
    is possible and that no one is alone in their struggles.

    “Media outlets have a responsibility to provide accurate and responsible information about mental health.”

    However, it is important for media outlets to approach
    mental health coverage with caution and sensitivity. Irresponsible or sensationalized reporting can perpetuate harmful stereotypes and misinformation, further stigmatizing those with mental health conditions.
    Media outlets have a responsibility to provide accurate and responsible information about
    mental health, consulting experts and mental health professionals
    when necessary.

    Additionally, the responsible use of technology is crucial in promoting youth mental health.
    The media can play a role in educating young people about the potential
    risks and benefits of technology use and promoting healthy habits.
    By encouraging balanced screen time, promoting positive online interactions, and raising awareness about the impact of cyberbullying,
    the media can empower youth to navigate the digital world safely and responsibly.

    Table: Media’s Role in Promoting Youth Mental Health

    Positive Aspects Negative Aspects

    Sharing stories of recovery and hope Sensationalized reporting

    Raising awareness and reducing stigma Perpetuating stereotypes

    Providing accurate and responsible information Misinformation and misinformation

    Educating about responsible use of technology Promoting unhealthy online habits

    “Responsible media coverage and storytelling can contribute to changing societal attitudes and fostering empathy and understanding.”

    The Role of Social Media and Video Game Companies in Youth Mental Health
    Social media and video game companies have a significant influence on the well-being of young people.
    It is essential for these companies to prioritize user well-being and
    promote healthy online experiences. By implementing user-friendly tools and features, they can create platforms that support youth
    mental health and foster positive interactions.

    One crucial aspect is allowing for independent research
    to study the impact of social media and video games on mental
    health. Openness to research can lead to valuable insights
    and guide the development of more responsible and user-centric platforms.
    By collaborating with experts in the field and providing access to data, these companies can contribute to evidence-based
    interventions and best practices.

    Equitable access to technology is also crucial for promoting youth mental health.
    Social media and video game companies should work toward bridging the digital divide and ensuring that all young people have equal opportunities to engage in online platforms.
    By promoting inclusivity and providing resources for those who may not have access to technology, these companies can help create a more equitable online environment.

    The Importance of Healthy Online Experiences
    Creating healthy online experiences is key to supporting youth mental
    health. Social media and video game companies can implement features that
    promote positive interactions, emotional well-being, and digital balance.
    For example, incorporating tools that encourage mindfulness,
    digital wellness, and responsible use of technology can empower young users to
    make informed choices about their online experiences.

    “By prioritizing user well-being, social media and video game companies can contribute to a safer and more supportive online environment for young people.”

    The Need for Responsible Content and Community Guidelines
    Responsible content moderation and community guidelines are vital for maintaining a safe and inclusive online space.

    Social media and video game companies should establish clear policies to address harmful or
    triggering content, cyberbullying, and hate speech.

    Regularly updating these guidelines and providing support for users who
    experience online abuse or harassment is essential for user
    well-being.

    Collaboration and Education
    Collaboration with mental health organizations, experts, and educators can further support youth mental health.

    By partnering with these stakeholders, social media and video game companies can develop educational resources,
    campaigns, and initiatives that promote mental health awareness, resilience, and digital citizenship.
    Education on topics such as emotional well-being, online safety, and healthy technology habits
    can empower young people to navigate the digital world more effectively.

    Promoting Positive Role Models and Representations
    Lastly, social media and video game companies should strive
    to promote positive role models and representations.

    By showcasing diverse and authentic stories, characters,
    and experiences, these platforms can help reduce stigma and foster empathy.
    This can contribute to a more inclusive society that embraces and
    supports youth mental health.

    The Role of Community Organizations in Supporting Youth Mental Health
    Community organizations play a crucial role in supporting
    the mental health of young people. They serve as valuable resources in providing mental
    health education, implementing evidence-based programs, and offering holistic support to youth and their families.
    These organizations play a vital role in addressing the unique
    mental health needs of at-risk youth, including those from marginalized groups or involved in the child welfare or
    juvenile justice systems.

    Mental health education is an essential component of community organizations’ efforts.
    By raising awareness and providing information about mental health, these organizations help combat stigma and promote early intervention. Evidence-based
    programs are another critical aspect of their work, ensuring that
    interventions and services provided are effective and based on the best available research.
    Through these programs, community organizations can empower young people
    to develop coping skills, enhance their resilience, and improve overall well-being.

    Supporting at-risk youth, such as those from marginalized groups, is a top priority for community organizations.

    By understanding and addressing the specific challenges faced by these individuals, such
    as systemic barriers and social determinants of mental health, these organizations can advocate
    for equitable access to resources and support. Additionally, community organizations aim to elevate the voices of young people and their families, ensuring that their perspectives
    and experiences shape the services and interventions provided.

    Role of Community Organizations in Supporting Youth Mental
    Health Description

    Mental Health Education Providing information and raising awareness about mental health to
    combat stigma and promote early intervention.

    Evidence-based Programs Implementing programs based on the best available research to empower young people and improve their
    overall well-being.

    Support for At-risk Youth Addressing the specific mental health needs of
    at-risk youth, such as those from marginalized groups or involved in the child welfare or juvenile justice systems.

    Elevating Voices Ensuring that the perspectives and experiences of young people and their
    families shape the services and interventions provided.

    Community organizations play a vital role in the support system for youth
    mental health. By collaborating with other
    stakeholders, including parents, schools, healthcare professionals, and funders, these organizations can create a comprehensive and integrated approach to promote the mental well-being of young
    people. Through their efforts, they contribute to building a society that
    values and prioritizes the mental health of all
    youth.

    Key Takeaways:

    Community organizations provide valuable resources in supporting youth mental
    health.

    They offer mental health education, implement evidence-based programs, and
    provide holistic support.

    Addressing the mental health needs of at-risk youth and marginalized groups
    is a priority for these organizations.

    Collaboration with other stakeholders is essential to create a comprehensive approach
    to youth mental health.

    The Role of Funders in Promoting Youth Mental Health
    Funders play a critical role in promoting youth mental health
    by making sustained investments in a range of initiatives and interventions.
    By providing ongoing financial support, funders contribute to the development, implementation,
    and evaluation of evidence-based interventions that
    address the unique needs of young people. These
    sustained investments ensure that programs and services are available and accessible to
    youth who require mental health support.

    To maximize impact, funders also engage in cross-sector partnerships, collaborating with organizations and stakeholders from various fields such as healthcare, education, and community development.
    These partnerships foster the exchange of knowledge and resources, enabling the implementation of innovative approaches to youth mental health promotion. By working together, funders and their partners can leverage their expertise and networks
    to create comprehensive and integrated systems of care.

    It is crucial for funders to prioritize evidence-based interventions that have
    demonstrated effectiveness in promoting youth mental health.
    By supporting interventions that are backed by
    rigorous research and evaluation, funders ensure that resources are allocated
    to programs that are proven to produce positive outcomes.
    This focus on evidence-based interventions helps to build a solid foundation for promoting youth
    mental health and ensures that interventions
    are targeted and effective.

    Key Role of Funders in Promoting Youth Mental Health Description

    Sustained Investments Provide ongoing financial support for youth
    mental health initiatives

    Cross-Sector Partnerships Collaborate with organizations and stakeholders from
    diverse fields to maximize impact

    Evidence-Based Interventions Support programs and services that are backed
    by rigorous research and evaluation

    Innovative Approaches Foster the development and implementation of creative solutions to promote youth
    mental health

    Youth and Family Involvement Prioritize the active participation and
    engagement of young people and their families in decision-making processes
    Involving young people and their families in the decision-making process is another essential aspect of funders’ role in promoting youth mental health.
    By actively engaging youth and their families, funders can ensure that interventions and services are
    designed to meet their specific needs. This approach helps to
    foster a sense of ownership and empowerment among young people, enhancing the effectiveness and relevance of initiatives.

    Overall, funders play a critical role in promoting youth mental health by making sustained investments, fostering cross-sector partnerships,
    supporting evidence-based interventions, promoting innovative approaches, and prioritizing youth and family involvement.
    By working collaboratively and strategically, funders can contribute to the development of comprehensive and effective systems
    of care that support the well-being of young people.

    The Role of Employers in Supporting Youth Mental Health
    When it comes to supporting youth mental health, employers play a crucial
    role in creating a healthy and supportive work
    environment. Comprehensive mental health care should be
    a priority, ensuring that employees, including young people,
    have access to the necessary resources and support. Addressing
    the underlying drivers of employee mental health challenges, both in the workplace and in their personal lives, is essential for promoting
    well-being.

    A positive workplace culture is key to supporting youth mental health.
    By fostering a culture that values employee well-being, employers can create an environment where young people feel supported and empowered.

    Regular assessments of well-being within the workplace can help identify areas for improvement and ensure that the necessary steps are taken to prioritize the mental health of all employees.

    Ultimately, supporting youth mental health in the workplace is not only beneficial for employees but also for the overall success of the
    organization. When young people feel supported
    and valued, they are more likely to thrive and contribute to a positive work environment.
    Prioritizing comprehensive mental health care, addressing underlying drivers, and cultivating a supportive workplace
    culture are essential steps that employers should take to support youth mental health.

    Benefits of Employer Support for Youth Mental Health Actions
    Employers Can Take

    Reduced stigma around mental health Provide mental health resources and support

    Improved employee morale and well-being Implement wellness
    programs and initiatives

    Increased productivity and job satisfaction Promote
    work-life balance and flexibility

    Lower healthcare costs Offer comprehensive mental health insurance coverage

    Attract and retain top talent Highlight mental health support as part of employee benefits

    Conclusion
    Youth mental health is a critical issue that requires a multi-faceted approach.
    Parents, schools, healthcare professionals, media, social media and video game companies,
    community organizations, funders, and employers all have important roles to play in supporting youth mental health.

    By working together and prioritizing the well-being of young people, we can create a society that promotes resilience, well-being, and the opportunity for all youth to
    lead fulfilling lives.

    It is crucial for parents to have open conversations with their children,
    actively listen to their concerns, and recognize the signs of distress.
    Schools need to create positive environments,
    provide social and emotional learning programs, and offer mental health support.
    Healthcare professionals should implement prevention strategies and address
    parental mental health. Media outlets must promote
    responsible portrayals of mental health, while social
    media and video game companies should prioritize user well-being and promote healthy online experiences.
    Community organizations should provide evidence-based programs
    and holistic support, and funders should make sustained
    investments and support innovative approaches.
    Lastly, employers should provide comprehensive mental
    health care and create a workplace culture that values employee well-being.

    FAQ

    What are some mental health resources for youth?

    There are several mental health support services available for young people, including counseling
    services, helplines, and organizations dedicated to youth mental health.
    Some examples include [list of specific resources].

    How can parents support their child’s mental health?

    Parents can support their child’s mental health by having open and honest
    conversations, listening to their child’s feelings, and recognizing signs of distress.

    It’s important to encourage your child to seek help and utilize school counseling services or other available resources in the community.

    What is the role of schools in promoting youth mental health?

    Schools play a crucial role in promoting youth mental health by creating positive and safe
    environments, implementing social and emotional learning programs, and providing mental health support.
    Good communication with families is also important.

    How can healthcare professionals address youth mental health?

    Healthcare professionals can address youth mental health by implementing prevention strategies,
    routine screening, and addressing parental mental health.
    Collaboration with community partners and building multidisciplinary teams is also essential.

    What is the role of media in promoting youth mental health?

    The media plays a powerful role in shaping perceptions and attitudes towards mental
    health. Media outlets can promote accurate and
    responsible information, avoid harmful stereotypes, and include stories of help, hope, and healing.
    Responsible use of technology is also important.

    How can social media and video game companies support
    youth mental health?

    Social media and video game companies can support youth mental health
    by building user-friendly tools that promote
    healthier online experiences, providing equitable access to technology, and allowing for independent
    research to study the impact of their products on mental
    health.

    How can community organizations support youth mental
    health?

    Community organizations can support youth mental health by providing mental health education, implementing
    evidence-based programs, and offering holistic support to youth and their families.
    It’s important to address the unique mental health needs of at-risk youth and reduce stigma and discrimination.

    What is the role of funders in promoting youth mental health?

    Funders play a critical role in promoting youth mental health by making sustained
    investments in equitable prevention, promotion, and early intervention. Cross-sector partnerships and collaboration can maximize reach and support evidence-based interventions
    and innovative approaches.

    How can employers support youth mental health?

    Employers can support youth mental health by providing access
    to comprehensive, affordable, and age-appropriate mental health
    care. Addressing underlying drivers of employee
    mental health challenges, creating a workplace culture that values well-being,
    and regularly assessing well-being within the workplace are
    important steps.

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  3. Aussie actor Russell Crowe has always worn his heart on his
    sleeve – sometimes to his detriment – but he has
    vowed to reel it in when watching his beloved Souths
    play NRL matches from now on.

    Crowe became a co-owner of the South Sydney Rabbitohs in 2006, alongside businessman Peter
    Holmes à Court, with the aim of revitalising the NRL club that
    was struggling at the time.

    Under his leadership, the Rabbitohs achieved financial stability and secured a premiership victory in 2014, ending a 43-year
    drought. 

    Crowe was instrumental in recruiting star players like Sam Burgess and Greg Inglis to the team, which significantly improved their performance. 

    He has often been seen passionately supporting
    the Rabbitohs at games, with media capturing moments of his
    animated reactions during key matches. 

    However the Gladiator star has vowed to show more of a poker face at future games for
    one big reason.  

    Hollywood actor Russell Crowe is a part owner of the South Sydney Rabbitohs and is a constant figure in the stands of home games

    Crowe bought into the club in 2006 and has been a passionate supporter of the club since he was a
    child

    Crowe, who was instrumental in bringing premiership players like
    Greg Inglis and Sam Burgess (pictured) to the club,
    has vowed to temper his emotions from now on

    ‘Nah [losing doesn’t impact my mood]…it is what it is,
    I can’t affect that outcome so you sort of just have
    to accept what’s going on,’ he told Fitzy & Wippa with Kate Ritchie.

    ‘A long time ago when I’d be going to Rabbitohs games when my kids
    were little and stuff, and I realised that by showing my passion in the
    grandstands was potentially giving the media outlets
    a way of mentally affecting the team. 

    ‘There was all these photos of me strangling the imaginary
    referee.

    ‘So, I thought, ‘I’m gonna stop doing that’. I’d go
    to a game and see what happens then I’d go backstage and you can swear. 

    ‘But when I’m watching the game, I try and keep my cool…because you
    know I think about it from the players’ perspective.

    They don’t want to see the boss looking like he’s pissed off in the Monday newspaper.

    So you’ve got to be cool about it.’ 

    Souths fans – including Crowe – endured a torrid 2024 season, finishing 16th with a 7-17 record. 

    Injuries and suspensions played their part but defensive frailties were the biggest issue,
    with the Rabbitohs conceding an average of 28.4 points per
    game – their worst since 2006.

    The Rabbitohs have gone back to the future by sacking coach Jason Demetriou and
    re-instating former mentor Wayne Bennett

    Souths fans will be hoping to see a fit and firing Latrell
    Mitchell back on the park next season

    Injuries compounded their struggles, with key players like Campbell Graham missing the entire season and Latrell Mitchell limited to 11 appearances.

    The season’s disappointments led to the dismissal of coach Jason Demetriou, with Wayne Bennett set to return as head coach in 2025.

    Looking ahead to 2025, the Rabbitohs have bolstered their
    roster by signing English halfback Lewis
    Dodd, Euan Aitken and Josh Schuster.

    The 2025 season kicks off with a match against Bennett’s former club the Dolphins.

    Sam BurgessKate RitchieSouth Sydney Rabbitohs

  4. Up the great staircase trooped the 2,500 guests, resplendent in tiaras and jewels or white tie
    and tails, to be greeted by their hostess, the Marchioness of
    Londonderry, glamorous in a clinging black satin Paris dress.
    Either side of her impressive cleavage gleamed great swathes of
    diamonds. Round her neck hung a heavy row of pearls that fell
    below her waist. On her head was the largest of the Londonderry tiaras, so big it was known in the family as ‘the fender’.

    Pale rays illuminate the top-lit gallery of Londonderry house

    Beside her stood her handsome husband Charles, the seventh Marquess of Londonderry, and the Prime Minister, Lloyd George.
    That November night in 1919 was Edith Londonderry’s first Eve of Parliament
    reception, a tradition that continued for 20-odd years.

    The Marchioness of Londonderry wears ‘the fender’ to greet guests, 1934

    Londonderry House, like many of London’s great houses, was built for
    entertaining. In the 18th and 19th centuries,
    most aristocrats and others who lived on their estates for much of the year had a town house to which they migrated for ‘the
    Season’ – those summer months filled with balls and parties, when débutantes were presented
    at court and launched into ‘society’ in the hope of making a splendid marriage.

    The ballroom, Devonshire House

    These houses were as magnificent as their owners could manage.
    Built and decorated by the most talented of the age, they were sumptuously furnished –
    walls were hung with silk, damask and wonderful paintings – and often embellished with
    marble statuary. The mustard-yellow drawing rooms of Londonderry House were filled
    with blue Sèvres vases and gold plate; in the entrance hall stood
    a Canova statue of Theseus and the Minotaur (now in the Victoria and Albert Museum).
    Suites of rooms, with a ballroom at one end, could be flung open for entertaining.

    Georgiana Cavendish (1757-1806), a lover of gambling – and threesomes

    Today most of these palatial mansions have been pulled down or turned into blocks of flats.
    With their disappearance went their furnishings, objets and paintings.
    But what their wonderful rooms looked like can be seen in London: Lost Interiors, a book compiled from superb
    black-and-white photographs of these amazing houses,
    some of which belonged to aristocratic landowners, others to plutocrats or society figures.

    The drawing room, Grosvenor House

    Most of the townhouses – those used for the Season rather than permanent residences – were clustered round Park Lane,
    Mayfair or on Piccadilly, like Devonshire House.

    Here once lived the fifth Duke of Devonshire and his
    wife Georgiana (pronounced jaw-janer), whom he had married
    in 1774 when she was just 17. She was a celebrated beauty who quickly
    became a leader of fashion, famous for her towering hairstyles three feet high, decorated with birds, fruit, even ships in sail.

    The couple spent 20 years in a ménage à trois with Lady Elizabeth Foster, Georgiana’s
    close friend, who was also the Duke’s mistress.
    Meanwhile, Georgiana’s gambling led to mounting debts: on her death in 1806 they were found to be the
    equivalent of £4 million in today’s money.

    The rich, restless second Duke of Westminster, AKA Bendor, in his 20s

    Another Park Lane mansion was Grosvenor House, belonging to the dukes
    of Westminster and one of the largest in London, as befitted the family’s status and wealth (their huge fortune came from their ownership of
    Mayfair). Bendor, the blond and handsome second duke (1879-1953)
    was known as one of the richest men in England, lavishing jewels on his mistresses,
    chief among whom was Coco Chanel.

    The picture gallery, Grosvenor House

    A restless soul, Bendor would arrive without warning at any of his houses (or yachts).
    All were kept ready: cars fuelled, silver polished,
    servants in livery. But after the First World War, during which Grosvenor House had been requisitioned as a
    hospital, land prices had risen so high that even for Bendor it had become uneconomic and he sold it.
    It was demolished in 1927 and the Grosvenor House Hotel
    was built on the site.

    Designer Oliver Messel, Devonshire House, 1934

    At the other end of the scale was 8 Pelham Place,
    the South Kensington home of Cecil Beaton from 1940 to 1975.

    Superbly furnished by this brilliant photographer, it was described loftily by the diarist Chips Channon (for whom the
    word ‘snob’ could have been invented – in his diaries
    he declares, ‘I am only really happy with royalty’) as ‘a tiny but super-attractive snuffbox of a house’.
    Beaton, himself no social slouch, ran him close:
    at his parties the women often wore stiletto heels,
    which pitted the floor, and later he would point them out, saying,
    ‘That’s Princess Marina, that’s Julie Andrews, that’s Vivien Leigh…’

    French furnishings at 8 Pelham Place, the South Kensington home of Cecil Beaton

    Beaton’s near neighbour in Pelham Place, until the mid-60s, was the great stage
    designer Oliver Messel. When Messel’s nephew Tony
    Armstrong-Jones (later Lord Snowdon) became engaged to Princess Margaret, Messel
    laid on a lunch, asking the Princess if there was anyone she would particularly like
    to meet. She said she had always greatly admired the witty cabaret star Bea Lillie and so Messel invited
    her.

    What none of them knew was that Bea Lillie had a drinking
    habit. At the end of lunch she slid quietly under
    the table and was carried upstairs to sleep it off. Tony and the Princess took
    their leave and Messel rushed back to his studio, where he was busy
    with fittings for Elizabeth Taylor, only to be interrupted by a
    telephone call.

    Cecil Beaton at home in Pelham Place, 1947

    ‘It’s Kensington Police Station here, Mr Messel,’ said the voice
    at the other end. ‘We thought you ought to know that
    there’s a naked woman on your balcony, throwing bottles at everyone who
    passes by.’

    Among the last of these fascinating residences to survive
    was the aforementioned Londonderry House. Throughout
    the 20s and 30s it had seen receptions and balls, hosted by the Londonderrys for their four daughters and two granddaughters.
    When eventually it had to go, in July 1962, a farewell party for 300 was given by Alastair,
    the 9th Marquess. Live sounds were supplied by a blues band featuring a swaggering young Mick Jagger, no less – presaging the rise of a whole new
    swinging London generation.

     

    London: Lost Interiors by Steven Brindle is published by Atlantic, £50.
    To order a copy for £42.50 with free UK delivery until
    22 December, go to mailshop.co.uk/books or call 020 3176 2937. 

    historic england, getty images

  5. Dressing up for Thanksgiving can be tricky because you
    want to strike a balance of style, comfort and practicality.

    The day often involves a mix of eating, lounging, socializing,
    and possibly outdoor activities so finding an outfit that’s both chic and cozy can be challenging.

    Plus, with all the eating, your look needs to
    be forgiving at the waist but formal enough for all the pics!

    Daily Mail reveals the best colors, silhouettes, and shoes
    for every kind of celebration.

    Dressing up for Thanksgiving can be tricky because you want
    to strike a balance of style, comfort and practicality

    SPIRITED COLORS 

    Warm, earthy tones that mimic fall foliage are the best colors to wear
    on Turkey Day.

    While black may seem like a logical choice for eating a large meal, festive
    tones like burnt orange, mustard yellow, forest green, browns and burgundy are a beautiful alternative for the season.

    Burnt orange: Evokes feelings of comfort and warmth, and is associated with foliage, fireplaces, and
    pumpkins.

    Mustard yellow: Captures the essence of the season by resembling the color of
    changing leaves.

    Forest green: Associated with nature, it aligns with the theme of the holiday.

    Browns: Perceived as warm and inviting, brown shades like chocolate, caramel
    and camel, are perfect for a family gathering.

    Burgundy:  This year’s hottest color, burgundy lends an air of sophistication.

    Cream: Natural yet elegant, the neutral creates balance.

    Gold: Adds a luxurious touch to any look. 

    Layering these color with textured fabrics, like knits or suede and a touch of silk, can create a stylish, seasonally appropriate look. 

    Shades that represent fallen leaves lend a rich, cozy feel and festive
    tone

    Bryce Dallas Howard attended the Prime Video Presents
    “Trailblazers” Showcase at Queen Elizabeth Hall in London, England looking seasonally appropriate

    Bryce Dallas Howard attended the Prime Video Presents “Trailblazers” Showcase at Queen Elizabeth Hall in London, England looking seasonally appropriate.

    The actress donned a light brown pleated dress topped by a dark brown leather blazer, both by Cinq à Sept.

    Finishing her monochromatic look was a pretty, pale pink beauty
    look. 

    This is a sharp ensemble for Thanksgiving day. 

    NON-RESTRICTIVE SILHOUETTES 

    Comfortable and forgiving waistlines are highly desired on Thanksgiving.

    Elastic waistbands: The stretch of the fabric allows
    for stomach expansion and a second serving
    of dessert!

    Empire waist: The fitted bodice ends just below
    the bust (instead of at the waistline) and extends to a flowing skirt.

    Drawstring: Allows for easy adjustments throughout the day offering a more
    relaxed fit than a traditional button and zipper closure.

    A-line: Flaring out at the hips, the “A” shape provides movement without the discomfort of a waistband.  

    Wrap style: Most are made from soft, stretchy fabric, allowing the wearer to tighten or loosen the garment as
    needed.

    Anna Kendrick was spotted on the streets of New York
    in a very festive look to promote her Netflix hit, ‘Woman of the
    Hour’, in burgundy

    Anna Kendrick was spotted on the streets of New York in a very
    festive look to promote her Netflix hit, ‘Woman of the Hour.’

    The actress put her petite frame on display in a velvet
    mini dress featuring an empire waist by Italian label La DoubleJ. 

    She paired the comfortable dress with tights, a crossbody bag, and velvet platforms heels in the same shade.

    Shop it: Laura Geller Cheek Tint, now $16.80;
    laurageller.com. Mary Jane Show by Mar Soreli, $165; marsoreli.com.

    Shimmery Jacquard Weave Dress by H&M, $49.99; hm.com. 

    Shop it: Off-the-Shoulder Dress by H&M, $39.99; hm.com.

    Studded Leather Mules by Chloe, $950; net-a-porter.com.
    Aimee Suede Blazer by L’Agence, $1,650; lagence.com

    EFFORTLESS SHOES 

    The best shoes that offer style without sacrificing comfort are mules, low-heel booties, loafers, ballet flats, and knee-high boots.

    Mules: Extremely easy to slip on and off, and they can be dressed up or down.

    Low-heel booties: They can complement and elevate a variety of outfits.

    Loafers: Currently trending, durable, and more elegant than a sneaker.

    Ballet flats: Cute and comfortable enough to wear for hours of mingling and feasting.

    Knee-high boots: Provide warmth and coverage to legs
    when wearing a dress or skirt that hit above the knee.

    Headed out on Thanksgiving-Eve? Turn to supermodel and actress Rosie Huntington-Whiteley for outfit inspiration

    Shop it: Bianca Sherpa Jacket by The Noli Shop, $178; thenolishop.com.
    Deesha Bootie by Naturalizer, now $165; naturalizer.com.
    Mid-Rise Pants by Gap, $69.95; gap.com

    Headed out on Thanksgiving-Eve? For many, this is a celebratory night to reconnect
    with old family and friends. 

    Dressing in a look you feel confident in can make these reunions that much better.  

    For outfit inspo, turn to supermodel and actress
    Rosie Huntington-Whiteley.

    The star was spotted on the streets of Paris looking tres chic in an all-black look topped
    by a brown leather jacket.

    Shop it: Simone Faux Shearling Bag by A.L.C., $195; alcltd.com. 
    Maysale 50 buckled suede mules by Manolo Blahnik,
    $795; net-a-porter.com. Devore Floral Tie Front Chiffon Maxi Dress by Rare London,
    $150; nordstrom.com

    Monica Barbaro’s ensemble at Variety’s 2024 Power Of Women: Los Angeles Event
    strikes the perfect balance between elegance and comfort

    Wearing a formal gown on Thanksgiving night can make the holiday feel
    more special.

    Dressing up signals respect and appreciation for the people and the occasion, so why not seize the day in a dress you love!

    Monica Barbaro’s ensemble at Variety’s 2024
    Power Of Women: Los Angeles Event strikes the perfect balance between elegance and comfort.

    The actress donned a chiffon burnout velvet flower
    slip dress in a festive red shade by Rodarte, with matching shoes.

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